Many of us are so obsessed with knowing – knowing who we are, where we are
going, who we will end up with, what we are meant to do, who it is we will
become, or how our future will play out. Naturally, we are inquisitive.
Some people do not take the time to recognize the beauty amid the chaos. They
are in this constant loop of searching for answers like a record on repeat. We
can spend hours, days, weeks, months, and even years trying to analyze a
situation or dissect people’s behaviors or intentions, but you will never learn
the truth. We will only end up feeling emotionally drained.
Our minds are rational; they want to have answers and make decisions. They
value control, order, and understanding. When we don’t have that, our minds make
us feel scared, stressed, nervous, and confused. While our brains tell us that
we must have answers, we cannot have control in knowing everything. We can
however, control our mentality.
Maybe, it is not about the discovery, but about the journey to get there.
Maybe, it is not what we know, but what we experience along the way. Maybe, we
do not have to have a map, plan, or have a set direction. Maybe, we can just
close our eyes and trust, take a deep breath, pray, and know that we are meant
to be right where we are.
Maybe, life is about expanding our minds and our experiences – diving into
life rather than trying to fully understand it. Maybe, we are not meant to know
because things will unfold the way the universe wants it to. Maybe, it is better
to walk forward directionless for now. There is no rush. No one will be there to
check off society’s expectations of your life at the end, and there is no last
call.
Next time you’re caught up in a routine, pause for a second. Look around like
you are in a photograph. In that stillness is where you can find the enchanting
little things that life has to offer you. There’s a sort of beauty in making
something out of what seems to be nothing. In breaking out of the clutter to
discover and create a glorious vision of your own world. Imagine living your
whole life with little moments like that.
There is a beauty in transience. We’re all only here for a period of time; we
all know that death is inevitable and that nothing lasts forever, yet as we go
on about how we need to treasure what we have, about how to live life “now”, how
many of us actually do it? Why do so many of us not live in the present? It is
because we fear.
If we change our mentalities and realize the beauty of transience, we lose a
bit of that fear, we put our brave faces on, and we make choices that allow us
to live in the present.
Don’t stay if you don’t like where you are now because all things change.
Even if you don’t do anything to change things, there is no guarantee that all
else will remain the same. You can’t control the actions that others take and
you most certainly can’t control what curveballs life throws at you.
There is no guarantee to anything, no promises that are certain, and no
forever. All I can promise you is that there is a certain beauty in the
temporary nature of things, how they unfold, and how we seizure every moment. If
we realize what excitement and happiness such moments can bring us, then I urge
you to step out and truly live life in the moment. Make the change your heart
tells you to. Do the things you want. Love the people around you. Fall
completely in love with your life, and be part of the evanescence.
Make some time to believe. Nowadays, we are still questioning what exists and
what doesn’t. Even so, make some time to believe that there is something in this
world- something that can’t be defined. There is something that takes care of
us. Some call it God, some call it destiny, some call it fate. Just believe in
something, because this something may be the reason why we are all here. Believe
that there is still good in the world – in people, in their actions, in
everything.
Most importantly, make some time for yourself and for everything that makes
you feel glad that you are alive. I don’t know for how long we are all still
here for, but as long as we exist now, we need to make time for everything that
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